Our History: The Four Homes of Mercy in
the Year 2006
Name:
The original name was the “Arab Orthodox Invalid’s Home Charitable Society.”
In Arabic it is called “Malja Kheiri Orthodoxy Arabie for Invalids.”
People in the area do not worry about lengthy names, they simply say “Malja
Madam Siksek.” Malja means refuge or Haven.
Founded in 1940 by Katherine G. Siksek and associates.
Who is Katherine?:
She was an Arab Palestinian of the Christian Orthodox Church living in
the Old City of Jerusalem.
Why Founded?:
There was need for care of Invalids. We believe it was the first of it’s
kind in Palestine.
Where Founded?:
Rentals were expensive in Jerusalem, so the foundress went to Beit Sahour,
a village where the shepherd’s field was located. In a cheap house
of a few rooms it was founded.
Location:
After Beit Sahour the Malja “Homes of Mercy”, moved into three other locations,
for lower rent and more spacious accommodations ending up in Bethany which
over-looks the Jordan hills and valleys.
The Very Start:
Was very simple with two patients, used old bed steads and covers.
More patients came later on in the year, the number reached 16.
Recognition:
When the co-vice Mayor of Jerusalem visited the place and fully supported
it and called on Palestinians to support it too the number increased considerably.
The name of the co-vice Mayor was Yacoub Farradj a man of good standing,
he registered his words in the first guest book.
Who Paid for Upkeep:
It was charitable from the very start. Once the Homes of Mercy were started,
local people were only too glad to donate for something worthwhile.
Katherine Siksek, though far from being rich, had a way to convince the
richest in the land to donate. She and her women friends went from
door to door, uphill and down hill, climbing long spiral stairs asking for
donations. Her appeal was one shilling per family some were gracious
and gave one shilling per person in a family.
To convince the public of the authenticity of the service, accounts sheets,
and later pamphlets, were published with names of donors made known and
the even the littlest donation mentioned.
Now, after celebrating our sixty first anniversary in this year 2001, our
publications are a proof of who lived in the country at that time, sort
of a register.
The Diaspora:
Hardly had the Homes of Mercy started and partly furnished when the years
of the Diaspora came in 1948. The Homes opened their gates to take
in people with problems. Stray children who got separated from their
parents or who have become orphans were sheltered in an adjoining building
whose people fled the country for safety. The rains came, snow fell,
mercilessly, tents fell and women in labor came to the Homes for safe deliveries,
the old age Home became like a hospital, simple doctors, general ones, barely
out of medical school delivered, later St. Mary’s Hospital was opened in
that compound of Homes. Soon patients were separated into sections
for men, for women, for children, for deliveries. Tents lent by UNRWA
were given to shelter more and more people. Say 180 in all! Mostly
accommodated in tents on the adjoining terraces.
The Four Homes of Mercy: out of chaos immerged four Homes. More women
in white were needed, Doctors in that area started to teach those who never
before served as nurses. Bare essentials of blankets, beds, clothing
and food eased the tension. A dying man here, an ill child there and
a woman in labor suppressing her pains.
A Plea Was Heard:
People heard and came and pledged help. OXFAM was one with those beautiful
weave it woolen blankets. Deaconess Morris came from England to witness
it all. We offered her lunch in the veranda having no dining room
around. She pledged help, I heard her. “Mrs. Siksek”, she said. “ You need
a building.” Mother smiled, “a building! Surely not.” Said Katherine. “I
need to feed, medicate and care of people” answered Katherine. “Alright
I’ll go back home and seek help for a building, and you attend to people
here! “said Deaconess.
More people showed up: Liz Mulford, of USA. Joop Bronsema of save
the children in Groningen Holland, Barbara Shoberg from Sweden, later Maja
Tjellstrom from Sweden too. Marlyn Schultz from France, Deit Koster
from Holland that is to mention but a few out of hundreds. Some even called
Katherine the Foundress St. Katherine!
Most of the previous executive committee have fled the country. A
new committee was elected and work continued. The late King Hussein
was reached in Jordan by members and he graciously gave a piece of land 11
donums and a half in size.
The unfathomable task of securing a building was started. Bazaars were
held locally and in Amman, dancing parties, dinners, lotteries. The
whole nation in what remained to be Palestine were offering aid from areas
around as well as the Western World. With people shocked because of
the Diaspora, they donated, while the “Homes” held no left overs in banks,
but spent to ease the pains of the nation. A victory came to be registered
in the annals of history, humanity proved that back in each human being’s
heart lurked, kindness and the determination of a brother to help his brother.
One man visited the Homes with three of his children. Bringing a gift of
meat, yearly he came on Easter. He whispered to me “I want to teach
them to save from their pocket money and give to charity. That was
one of ever so many examples.
No Time to Rest: The years rolled by, every two years, sometimes three,
elections took place. Sub committees elected in Jordan. Friends of the
Homes in England. Friends of the Homes in USA. A steering committee
got chosen. Years of deprivation, road blocks, issuance of permits, training
nurses, up-grading others, with new ideas pouring in.
In 1953 the first wheel chair arrived at the Homes of Mercy a gift from
Evanston’s Theology school, followed by donations in money to buy a wide range
of needed things. The more the road ahead stiffens the more we feel the Hand
of God steering us along. The one wheel chair was added to. Ask
our Spanish friends about that.
Both our general and executive committees are women. With our men
backing us, even our children in schools trying to buy sheets or training
suits for Christmas.
The number of the residents is now 90. The children’s Home, called “Hadaneh,”
was suspended because of less need for it and because of the need arising
for more space.
Things around have become very expensive. Sponsors are doing their
utmost, volunteers too. We find it hard to cope. The Life style
in close-by Jerusalem is higher and different, our employees resent poor
salaries. The Government of Palestine lends a hand. Recently Europeans
who could help did. One filled our store with food, others helped in
medicines another, bought some wheel chairs another walkers, a limited number
of bedsteads was bought and the wheels of time, of efforts, of renovations
followed one came after the other.
In the meantime the good old lady, Katherine, had passed away in 1973.
The news rocked the Homes of Mercy, crying of patients and employees were
heard a distance away. The Executive committee met and chose the daughter
of Katherine in her place.
Many feared the good service would end at that, yet the Hand of God blessed
those who gave and those who received. The income from the residing
patients remained to be scanty. The land was going through destruction,
usurpation, scarcity of income, fifty years and more of hard times.
How could Homes that depend on charity survive?
Charity inspite of all deprivation survived. From 1953 onwards 18228
babies were born in the Maternity under healthy conditions. In the
Homes for invalids 7852 people were cared for over these years. Those
dedicated efforts have not gone in vain. No – not so the executive
members, all fifteen of them women, simple women of good hearts, met once
every month. The registers of the meetings give the number of those meetings
to be 427 meetings, sometimes they met in that little house in the old city
of Jerusalem to remember the days where it all started and the place where
the bye – laws were prepared, and rules set for proper work to continue unshaken.
True sometimes we could not meet. The steering committee helped.
Sad things prevented our meetings too bad to happen in the land of “Peace
on Earth.”
In that tiny house, the Siksek house in the old city, the sixtieth birthday
of the Four Homes of Mercy was recently celebrated right after church.
The bond of love to ailing human beings brothers and sisters all children
of one God. This bond that draws us together to work harder yet.
This service for the care of invalids of Palestine lacks a lot. Many
needs are daily seen. The Arabic proverb says, “The eye sees the needs
yet the hands cannot reach.” We need friends, we need yet people
of charity. Five different groups of people assessed our service.
They came up with results, that coincided with what we knew that we need
over the years but could not mend for financial limitations.
Our building, committee of long ago of architects and engineers, of welfare
employees and doctors met in 1964 and planned what they believed will be
a bull-work of care. Until now the building is not finished, though
the service went on in the parts that were finished. There remains the teen-age
section, the haemoplegia section for adults and the rehabilitation center
in between. Now is the time to appeal again for finishing those sections.
A new era of care unfolds infront of our very eyes. The land which
once witnessed the birth of the Prince of Peace, still feels the sword of
hatred brandished in its midst. That part of hatred and uprooting
and strife we leave to politicians, to us is the duty of care for the underprivileged.
Humanity has proved that the human heart is far greater than the past century
could offer. One certain care home, built by charity, run by charity
requires more efforts to be a token of charitable care in a world entering
a new millenium of better methods of care for those who need them.
Already ramps have been added to our grounds, large areas cleared for wheel
chaired invalids, with each Home boasting a nursing station, four large rooms
set aside for theraupetic care. Five therapists employed, and other
highly specialized physicians pay rotational visits with a knowledgeable director
putting all this energy into raising standards of service among our physically
handicapped ones. Read our forth coming director’s report, it is a
challenge for good services.
Wish to God that Katherine and George Siksek were to see the extent of
the service offered now, and those sturdy women of sixty one years ago who
rallied around Katherine to help and do their utmost.
Let us, in summing up beg God to help us all keep up the good work done
in His Name.
Henrietta Siksek Farradj
Exec. Honorary Secretary
Updated April 2006